Find Your Why 2.0 and Find Your Flow!

Business is personal development.  Period.

It constantly challenges you to be and do your best.  Often under difficult circumstances.  It brings you face to face with your demons – and if you hang in there – it provides the platform for you to grow exponentially and become the person you were born to be.

If you stay the course, and continue to do your work – success in business will come.  It’s simply a matter of time. And faith.


To persevere through the many challenges your business inevitably brings, connect with the real reason you’re in business, and dramatically tilt the odds of success in your favor!


When you take the time to dig deep and discover why you do the work you do, you’ll discover the inner switch to light your way.  This one simple activity will provide tremendous  inspiration and energy, it’ll provide extreme clarity, and can be the push you need to continue your journey when the going, inevitably, gets rough.

So, do you know WHY you are in business?  Why you’re REALLY in business?

When I ask people WHY they are in business, I usually get responses like:

“To help people with their relationships so they are happier.”

“To help people with their health so they can live more fulfilling lives.”

“To help people with their finances so they don’t have to worry about retirement.”

And to these people, with all due respect, I say this is still WHAT you do – not why YOU do it.


There is another critical piece – what I call the 2.0! 

This piece is usually missing when most people talk about “Finding Your Why”!

I suspect you do what you do because of certain values you hold dear.  Maybe it’s contribution, security, recognition, freedom.  Maybe it’s simply your calling or purpose.

If you find that”Your Why” isn’t resonating with you right now, or it falls flat – go deeper.  If you are in business to make an impact, why does that matter to you?  If THAT doesn’t motivate, go deeper and ask yourself why THAT is important to you.  You may have to go 5 layers deep to find your true WHY – and you’ll know when you’ve found it!  Until then – keep asking the question, because the answers will come.

When you discover your real why – celebrate!  Embrace it.  Then share it in conversations with prospects and clients – this is your secret sauce that makes you – YOU!

Your WHY can change over time as you do.  As you grow personally and professionally, and you gain knowledge, wisdom and perspective – your internal drivers will change.  If you haven’t thought about your why lately – it’s probably time to re-visit this driving force.


When you have clarity on this one aspect of your work, you’ll have:

Focus and Flow
Everything aligns and falls into place because you can articulate the reason you get out of bed each morning and do the work you do.

Strength for the Journey 
When you feel discouraged or frustrated, reconnecting with the reasons you are in business can be the push you need to keep going.

Renewed Passion and Creativity
It gets your juices fired up, sparks your flame and unleashes your fullest potential.


“Finding Your Why 2.0” isn’t rocket science.  It IS a critical step in building a successful business so you can continue your life’s work.

Your ROI on about 15 minutes of your time is monumental!   It can literally mean the difference between business success and failure. (And there’s nothing wrong with “failure” – but that’s another post!)

I’ve thought about quitting my business many times in the past.  We all do.  And the one thing that consistently keeps me fired up and focused is reconnecting with my Why Statement.  With the reason I am in business.  My why, my mission is the foundation of everything I do.  In a few simple sentences it describes my contribution, impact, and purpose, and serves as a compass to ensure I’m always pointed in the right direction.

So, how about you?  Do you know WHY you are in business?  Why you do the work you do?

If you can articulate it in a compelling sentence or two that comes from your heart – you’re in great shape.

If not, click here to for a short video and download.  In just 15 minutes, you’ll craft a powerful 2.0 WHY Statement to help you get to the core of who you are and why you are in business!

This simple activity will help you make better business decisions, stay the course during the “growth opportunities” your business brings, and infuse your business (and your life) with more fun, flow, and freedom.

I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below, or in our Facebook Group!

Releasing Fear and Resistance

In hopes of helping you keep or maybe re-discover your perspective, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing my recent journey into the depths of Resistance and back again.

Being in business is the most proactive personal development activity on the planet. Life is too, of course, and being in business forces you to face your stories and fears in ways that other dimensions of your life don’t.

If you’ve been in business any length of time, I”m sure you can relate!

You probably went into business filled with excitement, exhilaration, optimism and a sense purpose in every fiber of your being. There was no time for doubts and distractions.

For me, I had 20 years of business, marketing and teaching experience – how hard could it be?! I was ready!

And we don’t know what we don’t know. We feel called to great heights, and often don’t even see the stumbling blocks, much less the abyss.

Fast forward to this fall. Being in business has been an transformational roller-coaster experience.

Hopefully, you’re enjoying the rewards too – working with amazing clients, helping them transform their lives and businesses as they transform yours. Developing new friendships and relationships along the way, crossing thresholds, changing your old stories, releasing baggage you no longer choose to carry. The wins, the losses – the growth!

Holy moly! Business in a nutshell.

Just when everything seems great…

So this time, when fear and Resistance came, (it never truly goes away) I thought I was ready.

As usual, it reared it’s ugly head seemingly out of the blue. And as I look back now from the other side of the crevasse – I see the warning signs that were there. The hesitations and stumbles, the doubts and distractions that began to PILE on, the procrastination – and finally – the paralysis.

Damn. It was deep. I was stuck. And terrified. For a dark time I wandered perilously close to the edge. I had my first ever anxiety attack. I had a huge pit in my stomach – daily. I took a break. Unplugged completely.

I felt so confused! I’d always moved through my stuff with meditation, journaling, movement, breathing – intentionally and fairly easily. Over the past several years I’d peeled back various versions of “I can’t do this”, “I’m not good enough”, “I’m not worthy”, “Who am I to do this?”.

Why was this time so HARD?

I’d done the work. I’d released those stories. I thought.

And here they were again – on steroids! I recognized they were all variations on the same theme. Distinctly different, and very similar. As I worked through this massive block I discovered how our thoughts cluster around and obscure our core negative beliefs. These tricky devils work together to protect us from our deepest fear. Oh they are slippery. That’s why it can feel like they come back, even after you’ve done the work on each one.

“You again?! I thought we were done?”

I’m so glad for my an incredible support system. Without it, I’m not sure I’d be writing to you today, renewed, re-energized and on fire! I hope so. And I’ll never know. As I shared my deepest fears with my mentor and mastermind members, they helped me see the thing – my core negative belief – that was holding me back.

I don’t mind sharing it – but it’s kind of long and complicated.  Seems like most stories are, right?

Working through this particular story with the help of people I know, love and trust was a longer journey than I thought it would be. Thankfully, I’m well on the road to recovery, and so grateful for every person who has walked alongside me.

And I’m grateful for you. You are the reason I do this work. And why I’m sharing such a personal journey.

Steps to Releasing Resistance

Please, remember, when you’re dancing with your own demons – they’re there for a reason. There’s a lesson to learn. Lean in and ask for guidance, for answers. You’ll find them. You already know what the answers are, sometimes it just takes a mirror to see them.

If you’re struggling with fear, or any of the masks it wears: confusion, procrastination, anxiety, depression, guilt, anger, and worry, to name just a few – the most important thing you can do is practice gratitude and faith.

It’s impossible to stay stuck in fear if you can find the things in your life you are grateful for. You may not feel grateful as you make your list. That’s ok for now. Just make a list and keep adding to it. And allow the love to come through again.

Remind yourself that you are here for a greater purpose, and have faith that you will find the way – and that you aren’t alone. God, the Universe, Spirit, the Divine, Source – it’s real. Remember who you are. And take time for self-care during this period. Rest. Trust. Breathe. Move. Find a trusted friend or colleague to talk to.

And write. Pour out the confusion and anguish onto paper. Don’t edit your thoughts – just write a stream of consciousness from the heart. Keep your hand moving across the paper until you have filled 2 pages. And do it again the next day, and the next. This activity, born from Julia Cameron’s Artist’s Way is one of the biggest gifts I give myself.

It will bring out the best and worst in you. And will help the fears surface and find their true voice. Don’t be alarmed by this.

Just acknowledge them, thank them for trying to keep you safe, love them, and let them go. Release the resistance.  The fear.

As one friend put it – “It can stay in the car with you if it must, but it can’t drive!”

Next time it happens, when you feel the fear and resistance arise, remember this is part of the journey. It is truly darkest before the dawn. And, if you persevere, you’ll grow in ways that may surprise you.  You WILL find the treasure you seek – it’s more beautiful than you can imagine!

You have gifts and talents to share – and you’re amazing, perfect, and enough – just the way you are.  And so am I.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.

Is Your Business Model Killing Your Business?

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What is a business model, and why should you care?

Well, a business model basically describes how you make money, so it’s kind of important.

And whether you realize it or not, you DO have a business model. All businesses do – either by accident or by design. Businesses with great business models make money. THIS is why you should care.

The specific business model you need depends on what type of business you have. Retail, service, manufacturing, wholesale, non-profit, online and offline – these all have different business models.

And what about YOUR business? What kind of business model do you have?

If you are a purpose-driven solopreneur and…

…You’re tired of chasing prospects and living month to month,
…You’re not sure where your next clients are coming from,
…You’re working harder than you ever wanted to – and you’re just getting by.

Then you most likely have a 1 on 1 business model. It’s the most common business model for solopreneurs, and it’s non-leveraged and deadly.  It can literally kill your business, and put you OUT of business before you even know what hit you.

Here are the three main reasons this non-leveraged business model DOESN’T work:

1. It can be difficult building up a clientele that will cover your business expenses and let you grow. It can take a lot of time and effort to constantly find new clients – and that’s okay if you don’t mind the slight panic that occurs when you look at your bank account and wonder how you are going to pay your web designer or copy writer. And if you don’t mind chasing potential customers and feeling somewhat desperate when talking to them hoping they will “buy your stuff.”

2. If you are working with one person at a time you are trading an hour’s work for an hour’s pay. Even if you are being paid very well, there is a limit to how much you can earn. And trading time for money is NOT something most people can, or want to do, over the long haul.

3. To stay in business, you cannot be the only “product”! If anything happens to you — there is no business. And if you are not working, or perhaps you even dare to take a vacation or a break from your business, there is no income.

A non-leveraged business that requires you to do most of the heavy lifting (even if you have contractors or employees) means you have simply succeeded in becoming self-employed, and your business is probably draining your energy, if not your bank account.

It doesn’t have to be this way. With a few tweaks – you can create a business that is:

Scaleable – meaning you can increase your revenue with minimal cost to you, and often while working fewer hours.

Sustainable – meaning you can maintain your business at a steady level without exhausting your time, finances, energy and other resources.

Sellable – meaning your business can thrive without you, and you can sell it when you are ready to move on – or want to retire!

These are the hallmarks of a real business!

The good news is that great business models are fairly easy to design and build. If you want to make real money on a regular basis you just need to create the framework that provides predictable cash flow from month to month.

Doesn’t THAT sound good?!  Predictable cash flow from month to month.

With the right business model, you can build your business as large (or small) as you want to AND enjoy the freedom to go on a vacation without worrying about lost revenue, (or saving money at a Motel 6!), or have a larger impact, or simply work fewer hours and make more money so you can reclaim your life!

I’ll be sharing more in the weeks and months to come on how to build a LEVERAGED business model – and I would love to hear your thoughts below!

Generating New Qualified Leads

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Lead generation is an on-going process and the life-blood of your business.   Whether you serve 100 people each year or 1,000, you need to have new potential clients coming in on a regular basis to avoid the “feast or famine” syndrome.  (Particularly the famine part.)

Furthermore, these leads need to be QUALIFIED, meaning they aren’t just warm bodies.  They are real people in need of what you have to offer.  People who are likely to become customers and clients – and when treated with the respect they deserve – raving fans!

This topic is huge in my masterminds. It’s one of the primary functions of your business. Consistently generating qualified leads – AKA Marketing.

So, let’s dive in!

 1. Make sure your basics are covered:

  • You know exactly who your customer is
  • You know what their problems are and what results they want
  • You have a solution that helps them bridge the gap
  • You can articulate what sets you apart from the rest of the pack
  • You have a compelling message that conveys your solution and uniqueness clearly and succinctly

So far so good? If you have this is place – you are ready for the next step.

If not, be careful. You are still early in your business development stage. You can and should still engage in marketing, just recognize that you any money you invest now is really just going to test your assumptions. So, don’t dump $1,000 into a FaceBook campaign and agonize over a high cost per click and low conversions – take it slowly and be methodical and intentional.

2. Have the system in place to collect leads and convert them into raving fans!

At the very least, you need a spreadsheet and a checklist.

  • A spreadsheet to capture their contact information and the results of each contact (email, phone call, mailing).
  • A checklist to make sure you go through every single step of the entire process with every single lead/potential client.

Once you have these basics – AUTOMATE your system and put your marketing machine to work!

3. Identify 3 ways you will consistently focus your efforts to bring new leads into your system.

There are so many options it is impossible to list them all. The key is to focus on where your best potential clients hang out – and how they like to engage with you. When you can bring these two elements together – it’s magic!

An easy way to look at the big picture is to think about this in terms of online and offline strategies.

Where are you choosing to play?

  • Online strategies include: Write blog posts; make podcasts; write email newsletters; create weekly/monthly challenges; produce webinars; create a presence on social media and network on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, Google+, etc.; make videos; create an irresistible free offer to collect emails; reach out to affiliates; use keywords and build SEO; use pay-per-click and social media ads; write press release; have online chats, hangouts and conference calls; hold contests; have referral and incentive programs, and more!
  • Offline strategies include: speaking; attend networking events, business cards, direct mail; postcards, brochures, volunteering at special events; go to and start Meet-Ups; create promotional/merchandising materials; create referral cards to distribute; use print and broadcast media (carefully); hire sign spinners; attend trade shows; distribute free samples and more!

Mix and match to create your own marketing/promotional plan to connect with and collect contact information for your best potential clients.

The bottom line with any of these strategies is the same:

  1. Choose Carefully – which strategies will you commit to and why? You can’t be all places at once, so pick your top 3, and grow from there.
  2. Be Intentional – what is the objective of each campaign or activity? What do you want people to do after engaging with you? Have one clearly crafted call to action embedded in each activity.
  3. Be Consistent – Commit to the process and implement fully. It takes time to get results, and the longer you stay with it – provided everything we have already discussed is in alignment – the better your results will be. Analyze your results, tweak your campaign, and do it again. And again. And again.

Once you find what works for you – stick with it. Invest more time and more money and watch your business take off!

What is working for you?!

How DO you get it all done?!

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One of the biggest things that comes up for entrepreneurs is handling the sheer number of things that need to get done!  Whether you alone are your business, or you have a team in place (which adds another level of responsibilities) – there never seems to enough time to get it all done.

Strategic planning, branding, developing products and services, production and distribution, sales and marketing, networking, purchasing and inventory, record keeping, financial statements, hiring decisions, staff training, legal issues, and expansion – it’s a wonder anyone chooses to go into business!

And, as an entrepreneur, you have already made that choice.  You have a passion to share, and you want to choose your lifestyle. You have a deep faith in yourself that you can do it. And you are right.  As long as you are clear on where you want to go, and take regular, meaningful action, you will leave your impact.

At the same time, I talk to so many people who say they want it, but they just aren’t ready YET.  They want to start a business so badly, or grow in a new direction and hire more staff, or offer new deeper experiences for their clients and customers, and they don’t have it all figured out yet, so they are paralyzed.  And that paralysis can be terminal.  I’ve seen it happen many times.  Years go by, and nothing changes.

Don’t let this happen to you.


Done is better than perfect.  

To me, that is the first “rule” of business.  Maybe the only rule.

It’s a fine line.  I know.  You want to put your best out there.  And first impressions DO matter.  Yet, if you are constantly tweaking and re-tweaking BEFORE you hit “Publish” or “Send” you will waste valuable time.  And you won’t ever see the results of your work.  You won’t move forward.

You need traction, you need to make mistakes, you need to learn from those mistakes and keep moving forward – no matter what.

You can always go back and edit your posts and emails and res-hoot videos.  (Trust me!)  But don’t let perfectionism hold you back.  Just DO IT!

Lecture over – now – running your business is a bit like herding cats.  Tasks can take on a life of their own and pull you in multiple directions, each howling for your attention.  To wrangle the herd and keep it moving in formation, it boils down to time management and systems.  There are hundreds of books and courses on the subject; ultimately, you have to find what works best for you.

Following is a simple system that may serve you well – it’s kind of like reverse goal planning! (And don’t let the “G-word” turn you off.  Goals help you focus on where you want to go and how you are going to get there.  I love, love SMART goals and have a post here (Give Your Business Wings) on exactly how to set SMART goals to drive your business in the RIGHT direction). In the meantime you can choose to tackle it this way (remember – it’s gotta work for YOU!)

Brain Dump to create a list of tasks or “to-do’s”

Even with great goals and lead measures in place – there are often many other “to-do’s” that don’t fit smoothly into the big picture.

Writing these niggling things down reduces stress and encourages deeper thinking. Creating “to-do” lists frees your mind from having to remember it all so your brain can engage in more productive activity. It can move from simply remembering details into deeper stages of thought like analysis, evaluation and creativity.  This is the stuff successful businesses are made of.

As an added bonus – as you cross items off your list you can literally see the progress you are making.  Revel in your accomplishments!  You can also see which items are being carried over from list to list – these are obviously the things you are putting off.  Is it because they aren’t priorities, or are you avoiding them?  Think about it.

I recommend a good brain dump periodically to get these out of your brain and on paper.  With a  pen – not a keyboard.  Leave gaps between items so you can add things later.  Use corners and margins if necessary to get it all on one page.

Step 1:  Set a timer for 20 minutes and list everything you can think of.  Ready?  Go!

Group Tasks (AKA Lead Measures!) Into Categories

Grouping your list items together helps your brain process information more efficiently and creatively.  It has also been said that “the process of combining pieces of information to create something more meaningful is a crucial aspect both of learning and of consciousness and is one of the defining features of human experience.”  (Maria Popova, Brain Pickings)

Step 2: After you have your list of “to-do’s”, group them into broader categories.  

For example, the following 4 “to-do’s” could be grouped into a category called Website:

  1. Submit proposal for web designer to elance
  2. Research similar sites
  3. Find images
  4. Write text for Home Page

These “to-do’s” can become Branding:

  1. Survey potential customers
  2. Choose niche
  3. Develop tagline
  4. Submit proposal to Logo Tournament

Likewise, these become Marketing:

  1. Create page
  2. Start posting daily
  3. Research Facebook Advertising

And these go under Speaking:

  1. Watch TedX Talks
  2. Call Chambers of Commerce for opportunities
  3. Research
  4. Outline signature speech

If you STILL have random tasks – put them under a category called “Parking Lot“!

Backwards planning

Step 3. Get out your calendar and set deadlines

Choose which activity is most meaningful right now.  Decide what you have to do first. Not what you want to do – but what MUST be completed to move forward.  Then get out your calendar, and give it a deadline.  Be realistic.  Work backward.  If your website has to be launched by August 25, then final edits should be complete by August 23. That means final web copy has to be complete by August 20.  That means your 2nd draft should be complete by August 15, and so on.  Put each deadline on your calendar.  Allow extra time. Things always take longer than expected.

Create blocks of time

Step 4.  Schedule 30 – 60 minutes with yourself to complete 1-2 of your most important tasks.  

Choose 1-2 tasks each week to work on and carve out the time to get them done.  Studies have shown there is a diminishing law of returns with goals and tasks.  Work on 1-2 and you will get them done.  If you try to tackle 3-4 – you may complete 1.  If you try to do 5 or more – you many not complete any!  Crazy – but who am I to question science?!  Besides, I have to agree with the research based on personal experience.  Slow and steady.  Baby steps.  This is how you build a business – it’s like eating an elephant – one bite at a time.

Looking at the big picture of all your tasks and to-do’s helps you prioritize and set deadlines.  Scheduling blocks of time to work on one or two tasks each week allows you to methodically approach what could otherwise overwhelm!  Also – using a timer can help you gauge how long something actually takes, and tells you when it is time to move to another task, helping you plan your time wisely.

The bottom line is that as an entrepreneur you do have a thousand tasks to keep track of.  That is the reality.  It is the work style you chose, (or it chose you!) It isn’t easy, but it is do-able if you have a system and make it work for you.  And remember – DONE IS BETTER THAN PERFECT!

Breathe and enjoy the process.  Remember- you can do it all – you just can’t do it all at the same time!


Systems Made Simple!

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Systems.  (ugh)

I’ve never been one to implement systems and processes. Heck, even the words turn me off. Systems and processes sound so, well dull.  To my way of thinking, there are many more exciting things to focus on in business.

It wasn’t until I actually learned and started implementing systems that I understood their freaking amazing VALUE. And became hooked.

When I began applying them to my business – it was as if a giant light bulb went off. Everything became so much easier and more predictable.

Now when I talk to people who have been in business a while, it’s one of the first things I ask.

What kind of SYSTEMS do you have in place?

Do you have a system for generating leads, nurturing customers, selling products and services, managing your team?

Do you have a system for feedback and testimonials?

For your finances?

The answer is usually “Not really, but I know should.”

Darn right.

Systems prevent things from falling between the cracks. They improve sales and profits, your customers’ experiences and team performance.

Systems make sure your business runs smoothly when you are away (on vacation!)

They save you time, money, frustration, and, by the way, make your business easier to sell someday.

So why DON’T you have systems in place? In my experience, chances are you think it is too hard, you aren’t sure how, or you don’t see the value.

Well, they really are easy to develop, (even fun!), and massively important.  Please trust me on this.

A system is really just a check list. And that’s a great place to start.

Think about an area of your business you want to create a system for – and start small.

Here’s an example:

Since I happen to love marketing and sales, that is where I started – and I can’t emphasize enough the impact on my sanity – and my bottom line!

My marketing system is made up of many smaller systems like social media systems, website systems, lead generation and nurturing systems, etc.

To tackle this system you want to start small.  Say, with a system to manage a Facebook Fan page.

1. Identify your objective.  What do you want the system to do?

For instance, maybe your goal is to provide valuable content on your fan page daily, share offers to work with you weekly, and increase engagement.

2.  Identify your strategy.

You might choose to share a relevant blog post, video, or inspirational messages every day, and once a week share an update on your current offer, special, or program. Furthermore, you might choose to ask a question on each post to increase engagement.

3. Create your checklist/system.

If you decide to hire this out, a super-simple checklist might look like this:

  • Find/Create 10 inspirational ads – add logo.
  • Find 10 funny, creative or educational short videos; under 3 minutes. Write 2-3 sentence summary and include a question.
  • Find 10 relevant blog posts; write 2-3 sentence summary, reference the author, and include a question.
  • Place material in Google Drive folder by the 20th of each month for approval.
  • On the 27th of each month use HootSuite to post approved content on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter; Pinterest; Google+ and Instagram

Super simple.  Easy to manage.  Done.  Next.

Granted, it can be a little more complex depending where you are in your business, and systems take time to implement.  However, once your systems are in place, your business can begin to run itself.

Your mission today is to create a checklist to “automate” one area of your business.

And if I make a suggestion, one system that should be a priority is your system to capture and nurture leads. Failing to track and nurture leads is one of the biggest mistakes we make in business.

I know, I’ve been there.

The first 6 months I was in business I was very careless with my best leads and it made a huge impact on my sales when I was ready to share my first offer. I had a great product and without the right leads  it was hard to fill my first few masterminds. I hope you learn from my mistakes.

So, what system are you going to start building today?

I’m happy to review it and give you my input if you want to connect!

Give Your Business Wings with a Game Plan!

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Did you know most people spend more time planning a vacation than planning how to succeed in business?

If this sounds like you – you’re in good company!

And yet, success rarely happens by accident.

Success happens when you’re clear on your vision, and you know what you need to do to get there!  When you have a Game Plan – and yes – goals.

And according to Forbes, Bloomberg, and other fine institutions….


The number one reason (8 out of 10) businesses fail in the first few years is:  Lack of Focus, Direction and Planning.

So, if you’re called to be in business, please, treat it like a business.  Give it the attention it deserves.

Create a Game Plan for your business – a written plan so you know where you are going.

To give your business wings – write goals to guide your daily actions.

Yup. Goals. Sorry!

Consider this: You’ll make better decisions and be more confident when you know exactly what you need to do to create the business you yearn for. No more leaving it to chance.

Writing down your goals creates a roadmap to your success and sets the process in motion.  Written goals helps you put things into perspective, stay focused, and use your time and resources more effectively.

And it gets even better.  The act of writing down your goal plants a seed in your subconscious mind.  Your mind then begins to work toward achieving the goal even when you aren’t consciously focused on it.

I went to a conference years ago where we all wrote 5 goals for ourselves.  The organizers took our worksheets and told us they would mail them back to us in 1 year.  After the conference, I really didn’t give my goals another thought – until 12 months later when I opened the letter I had written myself at the conference.

Imagine my surprise when I realized I had completed every goal on that piece of paper without any conscious thought.  Not necessarily in the way I had envisioned when I wrote them – and yet, I manifested every single goal in my life.

It’s not just me.  Time and time again I have heard people talk about this powerful phenomena.

It was and is a powerful reminder of how WRITTEN goals can shape our lives.

Goals move you forward.  Without a plan that includes goals, you don’t know where you are going. And why leave things to chance? Take intentional action – act on purpose in order to do the things that will move you toward your dreams.

If it’s true that the only difference between a dream and a goal is the written word – then I’m all in!

Personally, I like SMART goals.  (Primarily because they work!)

SMART goals = Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Timely.  There’s tons of information on SMART goals out there so I’m not going to regurgitate it here.

Besides, you’re smart and you’ll see what I mean in a minute.

Oh, and every goal should start with an ACTION VERB:

Write, Post, Research, Develop, Increase, Decrease, etc.

Here’s an example.  A common goal I hear from clients when I first start to work with them is:

“Make more money”

(That’s not a goal.  That’s a wish. Businesses don’t survive on wishes.)

With prompting, their goals start to sound like this:

“Increase my prices by 10% each year on May 1.”

“Increase my conversion rate by 10% in the next 3 months”

See the difference?

Here’s another one.

Instead of  “Write more.”

Set a goal to: “Write one hour on Monday’s and Wednesdays at 9AM for 3 months.”

A much better goal!  One you can wrap your mind around and actually achieve!

A few more tips on setting meaningful and powerful goals:

  1. Find your WHY. Think about why each goal is important to you.  This helps you prioritize the most important things to work on TODAY.
  1. Only work on 2-3 at any given time. More than that and you’ll experience the law of diminishing returns.  Quickly.  Too many goals and the mind doesn’t know where to focus.
  1. Break your goals into the high-level milestones and then smaller action-steps. Then focus on those.  It’s like eating an elephant – one small bite at a time.
  2. Lastly, if you need to change a goal don’t consider it a failure, consider it a victory as you had the insight to realize an adjustment was necessary!

Summing it up!

Once you decide where you want to go, and what needs to happen to get there – you’ll have more clarity and focus, and be more confident in your decision-making.

You’ll release the overwhelm and frustration, and be better prepared to navigate obstacles and avoid distractions.



I freaking love goals.

With the right approach creating a Game Plan with concrete goals is the number one thing you can do to instantly gain traction and get results. 

It’s been said that once you have WRITTEN your goals, and you believe you can achieve them – you are halfway there!

So, how about you? Are you a goal setter?

If not, you might consider starting with something like: “Write one SMART goal for your business today!”

3 Key Things to do BEFORE You Start Marketing!

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There are a few things in life we can count on: death, taxes, and the fact that without customers, your business will cease to exist.

I can’t help you with the first two – but I’m pretty darn good on the customer thing. And I know there are a 3 key action steps many people skip when it comes to marketing!

Completing these activities is the foundation of a successful business.

  1. Know Your Customer
  2. Do Your Research
  3. Craft a Compelling Message (To  stand apart from all the noise and RESONATE with your best prospects!)

1. Know Your Customer: I wrote about the importance of identifying your ideal customer in a recent post: Does Your Customer Have a First Name? In it, I explain how to drill down and choose who you want to work with. Answering the questions I shared will help you determine EXACTLY who your customer is, and what their challenges and dreams are. The more you know about your best potential clients, the better you can find them and begin talking to them.

2. Do Your Research: Another post talked about the importance of basic market research. A Little Market Research Goes a Long Way! outlines simple strategies that can yield huge results. Research doesn’t have to be complicated – and it is a crucial activity which should be part of your ongoing marketing strategy.

This brings us to our third key activity!

3. Craft a Compelling Message that will RESONATE with your best prospects! I find many business owners and entrepreneurs know intrinsically what their point of difference is, but they have a hard time verbalizing it.

Your ability to communicate your unique point of difference – the reasons people should do business with YOU and not with someone else – can literally make or break your business.

Take the time to craft a clear statement that explains what benefit you provide for who and how you do it uniquely well. Describe your target buyer, the problem you solve, and why you’re distinctly better than the alternatives. This simple statement helps you stand out from the very crowded market and is the foundation of your brand and all your marketing.

When you can articulate your Unique Selling Point, or USP – you will be ahead of the game! So, what’s yours? If you aren’t sure complete the following steps.  (Disclaimer Alert! I use my business as an example because I know it so well – I don’t mean for this post to be a blatant advertisement!  At the same time – if the message resonates….so be it!)  🙂

A. Begin by defining the problem. Many entrepreneurs make the mistake of diving headlong into the solution before really understanding the problem they’re looking to solve. Ask yourself – how important is the problem to my potential customer? What will happen if it isn’t fixed?  How are they addressing the problem now?

The problems my BEST Customer has are:

  • Being in business is harder than (she) thought it would be
  • Overwhelmed with the details of running it
  • Lots of ideas; not sure where to focus
  • Frustrated by the lack of growth
  • Not making the money she wants/deserves

If the problem isn’t fixed:

  • Her dreams could go up in smoke!

She is currently addressing the problem by:

  • Researching internet articles and videos
  • Talking to friends and family
  • Taking courses 
  • Hiring a coach

B. Then, describe your solution. How can you help your potential customers address their problems differently? (Better!?) This can be hard. It’s one reason Market Research is important. Look at what your competitors offer, then ask yourself why your solution is superior, and what makes you the right choice to do business with. Is it your schooling, education or training? Your experience? Technique? Or perspective?

My solution is: Virtual Mastermind Programs that combine powerful content AND peer collaboration/accountability.  After all, more heads are better than one!

The reasons I am the right choice are: 

  • 20+ years in business/marketing
  • Working with online and offline business models and marketing strategies
  • Clients come from retail, service, wholesale, MLM, and non-profit ventures
  • I’m a Trained Facilitator and Educator
  • I’ve designed and taught B2B & B2C Marketing/Sales/Leadership
  • I have 10+ years experience leading small groups
  • I have developed a Signature RoadMap system to keep your business on track

C. Now, design your message. What story can you tell? What details can you use? How can you do something differently?

Here is my USP as an example:

l lead powerful mastermind groups of amazing entrepreneurs who are growing businesses to escape the time and money trap. Together we brainstorm ideas, set goals and hold each other accountable. Weekly training is focused on how to generate new QUALIFIED leads and prospects, convert them into paying customers, and build systems to help their business practically run itself!  As a professional facilitator I keep meetings on track and on time and leverage the collective wisdom and experience of the group. Capped at just 6 carefully selected members, each group is large enough for everyone to benefit from diversity of the group, and small enough so every member receives individual attention.

THIS gives me a solid foundation to build from. It’s a little wordy in day-to-day conversation and is easily shortened to: “I run online masterminds for entrepreneurs who want to be more strategic and successful in business”.  This simple statement opens many doors and starts great dialogues with my best potential customers and is much more productive than saying “I’m a business strategist.”

These three activities are the foundation for your company, and the beginning of defining your brand.  When you know who your customer is, you know where to find them. And when you know what your unique message is, you know what to say to get their attention. And THAT is the sole purpose of Marketing.

It’s a crowded market place out there. How do you stand out? How will your customers know YOU are the right choice?

I would love to hear your thoughts or your USP if you care to share!

Create Your Vision of Success!

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One of the most powerful truths in life has to be that as human beings, we all have the ability to create our own success. This is such a simple statement it almost appears inconsequential, and perhaps you have heard it expressed so often it no longer has the ability to astonish.

But think about what this really means!  

Writers, researchers, philosophers and speakers have been telling us this for ages because it’s an amazing phenomenon and gift!

When you know what you want, the universe conspires to make it happen” writes Paulo Coelho in The Alchemist. “What your mind can conceive you can achieve”, writes Napoleon HIll in Think and Grow Rich.  “When you know what you want, and you want it bad enough, you will find a way to get it,” says Jim Rohn.

Even neuroscience has proven that parts of your brain are stimulated when you look into the future dream of bigger things – emotionally satisfying things – and that your brain actually mobilizes your inner resources to get you there and make what you envision happen!

Holy smokes. If that isn’t a reason to create a vision for where you want to go that will capture and motivate your brain to help get you there – then I don’t know what is!  

I like to create a 5 year vision.  5 years is far enough in the future to let my imagination run wild and think about what is truely possible, and not too far away to feel unrealistic and unattainable.

I release all limitations and imagine I have unlimited resources, time, energy, health and money.  And I ask myself a series or powerful questions and visualize the answers that come.

Then I write it down in paragraph form and flesh it out, filling in the details.  

There’s enormous power in writing things down.  This triggers part of your brain to pay attention to this information.  It says “This is important!”, and begins working behind the scenes to see that it happens.

Of course, the alternative is to just go with the flow and see where life takes you. There isn’t anything wrong with this approach; you might even end up in a great place.

More often than not though, this leads to waking up one day and wondering how the heck you ended up in debt, or bankrupt, or with 5 ex-spouses, or even hating your business. 

If you choose to be intentional about your success, create a vision describing where you want to go that’s aligned with your purpose and your values.

If you have a current vision you love – congrats!  You’re ahead of the game!

If not, click here for a short video and download and in just 15 minutes you’ll craft a powerful vision that inspires and motivates you, and gives you tremendous clarity and focus.

This simple activity will keep you moving in the direction of your dreams, help you make better business decisions, and help you persevere during the “growth opportunities” your business brings.

With your vision firmly in mind, you have something specific to focus your attention on.  And you know that where you place your attention is what grows.

Your vision also guides your goals, and your daily, weekly, and monthly action steps.  You know what to do every day so you can move forward with intention and purpose, releasing the overwhelm and confusion far too common in business.

I’d love to hear your thoughts below (or hear about your vision!), or in our private Facebook Group!